something to ponder upon..

To tell you the truth, trying and struggling to have a perfect marriage life is not easy. Everywhere you go, your spouse will always be by your side. We tend to get bored of the same routine, we tend to fall out of love once we live together and going through the same routine for more than a year. However, we should not be so negative about living together. We should be doing something about it. Think about the things that make you fall for your spouse before you got married. Besides, find time to do something new and something exciting that both of you could enjoy. As for me, I'd like to travel together to a new place and experience new things.

So far, every time I think about the sweetest things that we have done before we got married, it makes me fall for my husband over and over again.. A good statement that was written by David J. Schwartz has made me think that marriage is not about living together but the big objective in marriage is 'peace, happiness and tranquility, not winning quarrels or saying 'i could have told you so''. What everyone wants in life is happiness. :)

Do those little things that you love and enjoy for each other and build intimacy. :D

well, that was just a thought to brighten up my day. I miss my husband.

A different life

Surprisingly, I have not updated this blog after I got married to the wonderful man of my life. To date, Isa and I have been married for 6 month and 28 days and I really have enjoyed my life from the first day I became his wife. 22nd July 2011 was the day that I got hitched and it was a very memorable and wonderful day for me and for my husband. As expected, I cried when I hugged my parents! =') tears of joy. my first tears of joy. 24th July 2011 was the day we had our big reception. that was also the happiest day of my life. everyone smiled and everyone was happy. Thank you Allah for giving me such a wonderful life and filled with wonderful people in it. Thank you..

True, there has been a lot of ups and downs once we are married. Alhamdulillah, we managed to go through all of them with patience. I can't thank Allah enough for giving me such an understanding husband. I hope nothing will change this perfect life.

Lastly, I will try my best to be the best wife for Isa.. =)